MOMFLUANCERS & THE UNREAL Lifestyle (& the Negative Effects it has on ADHD Moms )

MOM influencers they’re everywhere. They’re perfect beautiful homes organized. Everything is done on time and they swear it’s so easy. Planning mass events cooking Cleaning acting like it only takes five minutes all it does is leave us feeling like we’re worthless unworthy hot mess that’s ruining everything making us feel like a bad mom a bad human, which then spirals us into anxiety RSD, leaving us more overwhelmed, and quite frankly I’m sick of it.

But let me tell you something it’s fake. It’s not real. They’re only showing you on video stage scenarios. Their lives are unrealistic even for moms who don’t have ADHD but for those of us that do we try so hard to do all the things that they’re doing and and we just end up failing, letting not only ourselves down, but feeling like we left our family down, it’s ridiculous.

I think it’s time that more mom’s start sharing real life real chaos real day in the moment without judgment And just a common Normalcy of what ADHD is and is not! Some days we are Winning others we just want to hide in a hole because we can’t even remember to brush our teeth let alone get dinner ready and remember the PTO or that Dr apt. Or the laundry that’s been in the wash for 3 days and we keep restarting it so it doesn’t smell and forget again!

This is why I came up with The Daily ADHD Grind

It’s a Free place for Real Raw ADHD Mom life the ups downs and the Dirty Laundry, where we can share tips hacks and even our Bad days to help each other get back up and know it’s ok that we are not perfect it’s about progress one tiny task at a time or a group of task in a hyper focused moment 😉.

Live Body Doubling and Cleaning , Crafting, and stress management with gardening and other activities that build our confidence help us hit the small wins with less overwhelm and enjoy life more.

I can’t wait to hear any tips or hacks you have found helpful or even some crazy hyper focused state that you did leaps around others .

Talk to you all next time or see you over on my YouTube channel or the new facebook group ! or on instagram you can reach out or reach out to me on here!

Later.

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